The Common Denominator of Success


skierI read a lot.  As a Keynote Speaker and a Key Note Taker, I have to.  It’s my job and my passion.  My new favorite book is Albert E. N. Gray’s The New Common Denominator of Success.  Here are my Key Notes:

  1. The common denominator of success – the secret of successful people – he or she has formed the habit of doing things that failures don’t like to do.
  2. Successful people don’t like doing these activities any more than unsuccessful people.  They just do it.
  3. Success is achieved by the minority and, therefore, unnatural and not to be achieved by following our natural likes and dislikes, nor guided by our natural preferences and prejudices.  Your natural likes and dislikes got you where you are today.
  4. Successful people have a purpose strong enough to form the habit of doing the things they don’t like to do in order to accomplish the purpose they want to accomplish.
  5. Habits form futures.  If we don’t deliberately form success habits then, unconsciously, you will form non-success habits.

An example of this appeared in the Wall Street Journal (September 9, 2008, “Snack Vendor – or Undercover Job Recruiter?” p. D1).  After numerous failed returned phone calls, Executive Recruiter, David Perry, staked out a leadership candidate’s favorite fly fishing spot in Montana.  He met another hard-to-reach recruit on a remote mountain bike trail.  On another mountain, a sales executive who is an expert skier, is tracked down by Mr. Perry on an expert’s ski run.  Mr. Perry is an amateur skier.  Finally, one recruit was mailed a $600 plane ticket, leaving that week, to the potential employer’s office.  In all of these cases, Perry was successful.

Successful people have formed the habit of doing things that failures don’t like to do.

Have a Tenacious Purpose,™ Ignore the Critiques and Break All the Rules

Successful people have a purpose strong enough to form the habit of doing the things they don’t like to do in order to accomplish the Purpose they want to accomplish.

You’re trying to ruin us.”  This is what Roy Disney said to his brother Walt in 1934.  Walt decided to produce Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs (the first full-length animated feature film), motion picture critics went into shock. Who would watch a cartoon for over an hour?  Half-way through filming Walt ran out of money.  Bankers refused to fund it.

The extreme pressure and anxiety caused Walt to suffer his third nervous breakdown in 1935.

In mid-1935, he convinced Bank of America to loan him $5 million dollars to complete the film.

The rest, as they say, is film history.  Snow White was seen by twenty million people in the first 18 months.  It took in a record-breaking $8 million its first year (at 25¢ per ticket!) and had made over $100 million.

Successful people have a purpose strong enough to form the habit of doing the things they don’t like to do in order to accomplish the Purpose they want to accomplish.

There are critiques in the executive recruiting industry with this brazen approach to headhunting.  “It cheapens the reality of the hard work that goes into executive search,” says Peter Felix, president of the Association of Executive Search consultants. “If you’re in the business of recruiting leadership candidates, you have to bring tact, grace and integrity to the profession,” adds industry pundit Joseph Daniel McCool.

Mr. Perry earns about $500,000 annually, in an industry where the average partner earns between $350,000 and $400,000.

The secret of the successful people – he or she has formed the habit of doing things that failures don’t like to do.

Let’s hear from you.  What are your success habits or the success habits of successful people you have witnessed?

What is your Tenacious Purpose?

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  1. #1 by Amelie - May 29th, 2009 at 14:07

    Ed, I am so glad you sent me your blog today. It is so true that mindsets can keep us “stuck”, often because of someone’s senseless comment. It is also true that sometimes, we have to forget about the norm, forget about what everyone else thinks and just go for it. Take me for example. I started working for the government as a CR-04 (admin clerk). Within 3 months I was promoted to a PE-01 (HR Trainee). When a PE-04 position came out just 2 years later, I decided to apply. Everybody said “Who do you think you are? You’re only a little PE-01, you can’t jump 3 levels!!!”. Why not I wondered?!? I knew I was qualified and could do the job. So I decided to go for it and did get the position. I was highly critized for it, but ended up being their top performer and favorite trainer. Lesson learned: Don’t let others tell you what you CAN’T do when you know darn well that YES, YOU CAN.

  2. #2 by Michael Neuendorff - May 29th, 2009 at 17:17

    I agree with this line of thinking completely. It’s been the secret to my success a few times and I’ve told newer employees so. I once worked for a plumbing services company as an inside salesperson and dispatcher. I initially did a combination of day and night shifts. One day the manager asked me if I’d like to become the night manager, which would require me to work until 10 pm Monday – Friday. For a guy in his 20s that wasn’t attractive. I took it knowing that no one else wanted it and it was a way to shoot past more senior guys on the team. I became a manager, had my pay raised, and got all the sales after 5 pm, which made me #2 in the company the first full year on the job. Seek out these ‘undesired’ opportunities to leapfrog your peers.

  3. #3 by Abel Goddard - May 30th, 2009 at 00:13

    Although I admit to having a hard time with it, it sounds like this all boils down to: WORK. Being willing to WORK will take you far, if you work smart.

  4. #4 by Laura Houghton - May 30th, 2009 at 10:13

    Ed, this was a great reminder for me today. I have set two primary goals for myself, but am not sure how to accomplish them. Maybe if I do the chores on which I have been procrastinating, I will clear away my mental clutter as well. It’s definitely time to stop living my life by the seat of my pants.

  5. #5 by Laya Saul - May 30th, 2009 at 14:16

    Great post, thank you. The top thing I am tenacious about is getting my children raised. There will be no fanfare, there are no promotions and no pay increases. But I keep making dinner, kissing, praising, setting boundaries and the like.

    On the “professional” side, I have two more books started and a third in outline form. Sitting down to write them is often hard, so the reminder to do what is not comfortable is important. One technique I’ve used to keep me moving forward is “masterminding”.

    I just read an article about a teaching that says the opposite of pain is comfort, not pleasure. Accomplishing what has value brings great pleasure and that takes work and effort.

    Thanks again for the great post!

  6. #6 by Amy Ayoub - May 30th, 2009 at 20:37

    Ed, I just realized I began my journey to success in the speaking world after attending your “Lady and the Champs” presentation in Las Vegas. That has been followed by your audio lessons, some coaching and now your blog. I think another common denominator of success is having an incredible coach and model, so thank you! Keep the information coming! I am ready any time for the 6-month course you mentioned…just let me know. I am determined to be a successful professional speaker and am grateful for your guidance.

  7. #7 by CK - May 31st, 2009 at 08:21

    Isn’t it wisely said “It takes twenty years to make an overnight success “

  8. #8 by Lileth - June 1st, 2009 at 00:13

    Ten years ago, i sent CD’S and Videos of my performances in all the jazz clubs in tokyo, i received calls and mails from some jazz clubs and was lucky to have this chance to perform in this club named Body and Soul, the best jazz club i’ve known here in the country. I was scheduled to perform once a month, can’t believed it cause only well-known musicians and famous artist from other countries are allowed to perform in this Club. I received unwanted comments and criticism from this jealous people, saying I’m not good enough and i am not a jazz singer. i close my ears to all this non-sense and go on enjoying my monthly performance in this club. I have many plans for myself and having you as my coach and model will help me a lot to reach my dreams. I am grateful to you.

  9. #9 by Lileth - June 1st, 2009 at 00:14

    Lileth :
    Ten years ago, i sent CD’S and Videos of my performances in all the jazz clubs in tokyo, i received calls and mails from some jazz clubs and was lucky to have this chance to perform in this club named Body and Soul, the best jazz club i’ve known here in the country. I was scheduled to perform once a month, can’t believed it cause only well-known musicians and famous artist from other countries are allowed to perform in this club. I received unwanted comments and criticism from this jealous people, saying I’m not good enough and i am not a jazz singer. i close my ears to all this non-sense and go on enjoying my monthly performance in this club. I have many plans for myself and having you as my coach and model will help me a lot to reach my dreams. I am grateful to you.

  10. #10 by Lileth - June 1st, 2009 at 00:19

    Lileth :

    Lileth :
    Ten years ago, i sent CD’S and Videos of my performances in all the jazz clubs in tokyo, i received calls and mails from some jazz clubs and was lucky to have this chance to perform in this club named Body and Soul, the best jazz club i’ve known here in the country. I was scheduled to perform once a month, can’t believed it cause only well-known musicians and famous artist from other countries are allowed to perform in this club. I received unwanted comments and criticism from this jealous people, saying I’m not good enough and i am not a jazz singer. i close my ears to all this non-sense and go on enjoying my monthly performance in this club. I have many plans for myself and having you as my coach and model will help me a lot to reach my dreams. I am grateful to you.

  11. #11 by Tom Murphy - June 3rd, 2009 at 20:10

    The roots of my success habits were planted at an early age. Perhaps one that many middle-aged Americans can relate to was inspired by the cartoon character, Yogi Bear. To achieve success, you have to be “smarter than the average bear”. There will be plenty of Mr. Ranger’s in life that will try to stop you, but the pride of tenacious purpose will lead you to achieve your goals (“pic-a-nic baskets”).

    Thanks for the book recommendation Ed!

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